Fate? Does that Bother You?

            When we hear the word 'destiny', what often comes to our mind is the future. It sometimes disturbs us when we think about what we will be ten years from now. It is sad to say that several people depend on their fate. And whenever I hear the cliche statement, ' It's destiny and I can't change it', I would secretly laugh, knowing that we are actually the ones who make our destiny. Well, at least, some of us. Yes, we do things for our future- WE SHOULD. I got this from a movie I watched. Not to mention the title, it has struck and inspired me to take every step to have my dreams come true. And that movie motivated me to make this as my topic for my blog.

           

            LIVE YOUR LIVE!- that's the thing. Letting the time come and go, and the day pass is definitely just an ordinary day. In fact, the person who has this manner surely had a lot of regrets and frustrations in life. And that is somehow boring. But on the other hand, waking up every single day, straining every nerve to make one's expectations turn to reality, is absolutely, a hyper-active person in life. Life, then, becomes less regretful and more of satisfaction. So if something undesirable happens, don't say, " My destiny is an ocean of catastrophe", but rather, " Because of what I did, this became my prize". In other words, your destiny is just the outcome of what you did and didn't do. Like one text message I received from a friend, "regrets are not what you did, but what you didn't do", so take every opportunity and make the most of it. You should rule your future, not that your future rules you. There's nothing wrong in filling up one's mind with lots of expectations, as long as you put it into actions.

           

            Now, the question is: Fate- Does that bother you? OR Fate- Does that challenge you? In my case, fate CHALLENGES me. You see, if it BOTHERS you, that means there is a 50-50 condition whether or not you are afraid that fate will be a nightmare. On the other hand, if fate CHALLENGES you, that means you are motivated to strive and work harder for your future.

           

            So for people who just expect and expect, hope and hope, foresee and foresee, and take no action, FATE is a word that DOES kill them. But for those who take every opportunity to make things happen and do not only foresee but make moves for a satisfying and worthy tomorrow, FATE is just a four-letter word in a hardbound dictionary, found in every library throughout the world.